Intimacy Coaching

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Intimacy coaching is a specialized form of coaching that helps individuals and couples foster deeper emotional, physical, and mental connections by providing guidance, tools, and a supportive environment to improve communication, overcome intimacy barriers, and cultivate more fulfilling relationships. As part of my broader sex services I offer a range of sexual education and coaching services. This help clients with a diverse range of issues and needs. Intimacy coaching is a sexual service, distinct from sex therapy and psychological services. My clients often undertake intimacy coaching adjacent to treatment from medical professionals, psychologists and other allied health professionals. Coaching is not a replacement for these services.

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    Sex Coaching

    I provide hands on sex coaching for individuals and couples to improve sexual technique, pleasure, communication, understanding and recovery. I have experience treating sexual issues such as premature or delayed ejaculation, inability to orgasm, recovery from sexual trauma and other sexual health issues. Coaching is also great if you missed out on key sex ed growing up, if you’re sexually inexperienced, if you’re lacking a bit of confidence or if you’re struggling with sexual communication. I can coach you to better understand male and female anatomy and physiological sexual responses, erogenous zones, sexual body language and cues, and how to verbally get and sustain mutual consent during sex.

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    Somatic Bodywork

    Somatic bodywork is an emerging field that includes embodiment practices that enhance the mind’s interactions with bodily function to induce relaxation and improve overall health and wellbeing. It involves hands-on bodywork, breathwork, massage, guided meditation, education, and physiological awareness. There’s a growing body of evidence supporting embodiment and somatic practices as a way of treating physical and emotional symptoms and improving coping strategies for physical and sexual issues and chronic conditions. Daily practice is essential for deriving benefit.

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    Intimacy Coaching

    Intimacy coaching helps people feel safer, closer and more connected to sexual partners. It’s useful for issues with physical and emotional intimacy and to help couples or individuals learn the skills needed to promote sexual and emotional safety. I can help you improve your sexual and emotional communication during sex as well as unpack any issues which might be introducing blockers to great sexual experiences. It’s also highly useful if you just want to improve your sexual confidence, knowledge and experience. I can work with you as an individual or as a couple.

Intimacy coaching within the massage service includes:

  • Talking through your issues and needs

  • Identifying / assessing what your current sexual performance and experience is (using massage as a baseline)

  • Developing goals for the future

  • Education about sexual communication, anatomy, and pleasure

  • Working through / reducing mental and physical blockers

  • Mindfulness training, breathwork and embodiment counselling

Intimacy coaching with the GFE service includes:

  • Everything in the massage service plus:

  • Hands on sexual practice

  • Improving technique and skill

  • Improving your comfort, familiarity and confidence in sexual experiences

  • Improving sexual communication and understanding of body cues